How Husband and Father have never been a Serious View - A woman's perspective

When in the development of a young man and woman, there are significant dilemmas foreshadowed; what are these decisions and behaviors she has reflected on in choosing a husband and the father of her children?

-  Will he be another child among the children she will care for?  or will he be a husband?
-  When will she see a man and not another son who will hang on to her as mother?
-  Did he marry me to be his caretaker or the Bride he loves?
-  Is this a marriage or a babysitting contract?
-  How does a Bridegroom love his Bride and not as a little immature human being clinging to a woman?
-  Is he a Bridegroom or the man who will demand from her what only belongs to a husband?
-  How does he seek my attention; as a man or an egoistic systematic male domination formed idea?
-  Has he made initiatives with a mature outlook and with a perspective from men you trust?
-  Who are his "buddies" or rather, who are his friends and his mentors?
-  How does he utilize his time and how did he spend his childhood (videogames, pornography, playboy magazines, study or works of charity)?

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